ThreadThe Black Culture Community [OT 4] - Melanin and Estrogen - The new Kryptonite
Ah, yeah, there's plenty of that to go around here. For me it depends on the post in question. Whether the person seems like they're open to listening despite what they've done wrong, or are just being insensitive. That will inform how I attempt to correct them. It can get tiring, but I like to remember that it isn't just for them, but also others who are reading.
I will say, I always appreciate when someone can show introspection and apologise, even if they've been called out harshly. I think it shows a level of sincerity and humility.