Fuck off is it. She knew exactly what she was doing. The explanation of grooming can only go so far. She still actively went to join them knowing full well what they did and what they stood for, that they were murderers and terrorists, and she actively contributed to their cause. Once she was away from them she stated she had no regrets in any of it. You can Fuck right off trying to excuse any criticism of her actions as 'victim blaming'