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EtcetEraThread Ended a relationship 80 days from getting married. Oof.
Reason User banned (2 weeks): misogyny
OP, you definitely need to drop this shitty relationship for good. The universe was throwing all these red flags at you for years and you ignored them. You wound up in this situation, you would think your eyes have been opened. But at the first sign you wanna go back. What do you think the outcome is gonna be? Something different? And in the future you need to act more like a man. Like an alpha in the relationship. You told us how you cleaned the house, how you vacuumed and stuff while your 20 year old girl was playing games. How you left everything on her shoulders, where to eat, what to do, what movie to watch. Does that sound like something a man is supposed to do? What an alpha does? Your job is to take the lead. To be decisive and driven. Not to put her in charge. She lost attraction for you for maybe an entire year from what you told us here. She was coasting along in the relationship until she found someone better. You enabled her behaviour, acted weak in the relationship and after she dumped you in the blink of an eye (from your perspective, because you dont know how to recognize the signs, she was out for along time emotionaly) you wanna take her back. She only tries to string you along because she hasnt found someone better yet. What you need to do is grow a set of balls, walk away forever from her and learn from the mistakes you did in this relationship so you know better in the future so you wont repeat them. Remember the red flags and next time you see them, dont ignore them