Extremists prey on the disenfranchised. If we go for the jugular and shame people who are just clueless instead of treating them like human beings you are setting up the ball for the first red-piller who comes along to nudge it into the hole. People are obviously responsible for their own actions, ultimately. But we have to accept some culpability when we act to take people down instead of building them up. We have to stop abusing people for not having learned what we have.