Let’s face it, a non-insignificant swathe of era has some form of mental or learning incapacity which limits their ability to be empathetic or use logic/reason to understand why something as socially and behaviourally common as having kids is a thing. This isn’t me being hostile in any way, but at this point it’s pretty blatant. There’s a fair population here who just don’t understand societal norms or how the vast majority of humans think. It’s frustrating but also kinda sad.You don’t know that that won’t change. Guess if your spouse became disabled to the point of needing personal case, you’d not want them anymore?