So don't use that term? The title says "normalising pedophilia". Pedophilia is having sex with 4 year olds. Aren't you normalising that when you are comparing it to having sex with 17 year olds? I think that discussion is interesting to have (personally I think it's all about power dynamics) but people keep using that term and it's not only wrong but it also harmful. Age of consent is something that differs from place to place and the more complete laws regarding the issue take into consideration more than age differences but also power dynamics for example. Because it's a complex issue and it should be treated as such. Someone calling for 20 year age of consent in this thread just shows a lack of understanding of the concept. And thread titles that frame things like this don't help anything.