I dont think MJ showed the porn to the kids, he probably had it in his nightstand and the kids rummaged and found them. If thats a crime then my parents are criminals. The other stuff, MJ isn't your average person, he had no childhood and wanted to see what it was like through these "child porn" books. "boys will be boys" has pretty nice art depicting the joys of growing up as a child, from what I can sample online. I get the point of "if this was anyone else, you'd call them a pedo" argument, and I would call this person a pedo absolutely in that case, but I don't think its because we're blind since we love MJ so much. It's because its MJ was one messed up dude and to me its believable he actually wanted to do all of this weird stuff innocently.