I don’t know, I am Italian in origin and I literally always get people telling me stuff like “oh you’re in the mafia”, or were all fat and hairy, shit like that. I’ve never thought anything of it tbh. I certainly didnt do a depression over it. I’m none of those things so why should it bother me? Obviously if she’s always saying the stuff then it can become annoying, but to have a depression over it? Seems to me like he might have had other stuff/issues happen and this was the drop that made the bucket bust. It doesn’t excuse her attitude tho. Ultimately, People say stupid shit. If you’re going to take everything personally, then life is going to be very hard for you. I hope he got/gets help tho. Depression is not fun.