Hot New Top All Games Games (Main) Games (Hangout) Offtopic Offtopic (Main) Offtopic (Hangout)
"Are these alt posts just vying for 'craven post of the day' on kiwi farms or something?"

Bans & Warnings (Hot) Off-Topic

Vote Button
Score
0.55
Total
9
Published

(18536640)

EtcetEraThread DatingEra - This isn't like one of your animes
Reason User Banned (Permanent): Engaging in unacceptable misconduct.
Now that my dad has recovered from kidney failure and that i put that last relationship fully behind me. I feel like in a state of trying dating again but i set some new rules to make sure i wont get fooled again by ppl lying about their true age. If i meet a foreign person online i wanna see id card. Cuz seriuously i aint going through that blind faith nonsense ever again turned out my last gf lied about her age that literally is the reason i am clear and fine she told everyone the truth and relationship ended and we blocked each other and moved on. So yeah thats why i make sure next time to ask for a confirmation of age sure it might sound silly but its better to avoid this ever happening again. And besides i dont think its that weird if the person is met online and lives far away. If they ask why ill just say the truth. Personally as i soon have a job again ill probably just go to local bars i prefer that way over dating sites those just feel a bit forced to me i prefer meetin someone irl. Thats why i am actually glad to have a job finally soon so that i put myself out more. It probably wont be that hard to find someone since i am quite good looking other people say so too. And i agree tbh. Yeah i am glad that rollercoaster got resolved and i ofcourse learned my lesson. To always freakin ask for proof of age with long distance relationships. She lied btw cuz she knew i would not date her if she told her true age so when after months she finally told the truth i was like sorry cant do this and made sure her family knew what happened so she would not try to get me back or anything like that and also can just move on with her life. I forgave her cuz young peeps do stupid shit all the time and i shouldve asked for proof of her age. Honestly my dad gettin a kidney transplant around the time of this drama happening was a good timing so i could focus on him and mentally sort myself out to make sure this wont happen twice as in another time. Its not like i am proud of it. And i am glad it got sorted out in a way both of us can move on. My dad jokes well next time squiddo make sure they are 18+ and while he makes light of the situation i agree like askin proof of age is not that crazy. I know that as a pretty good lookin fella teen girls could get interested too and ill make sure to never make that mistake again and be fooled by that age lie ever again. As i said earlier when in doubt ill ask for id or passport. Better be safe then sorry and end up in jail. This time i was lucky as ppl understood the situation and it was a eye opener to be more open eyed. No matter what never ever ill date someone under legal age again and drop my guard down. I have got it printed in my head "Squiddo ask proof of age before dating no matter what" and thats exactly what my dad told me he even said well if they are from anothrr country let them come to you or have em send a pic of their id before you start a relationship. Sorry for the rambling but yeah just wanted to be honest about what happened and i posted earlier about it on era so might aswell have a full post about it to clear it up incase it ever backfires me somehow. Random selfie of me since i dont like lying and talking bs. But yeah i promised myself to never make that mistake again and o am very glad the situation ended decently for us both. I am not mad tbh at all just dissapointed in myself i got fooled and shouldve been more carefull and just asked for her damn id or something. But tbh while i wont use it as a full excuse my dad was horribly ill at the time so i let my guard down a lil. My family and friends say shit happens and as she lied about her age your not fully to blame sure it was stupid of you but dont worry just make sure next time to check better and get that age proof and all is fine dont stress to much about it. While i agree with them i still feel shit about it all but tbh i think thats actually a good thing wich will make sure i am more aware next time with meetin ppl online. Its been like 6 months now and i finally can move on mentally and personally from the mess what happened. In that time i helped my dad with his recovery and made sure to think of things and how to handle things better and more adult like in the future. I also admire my family and friends and other peeps they were really supportive. I actually had suicide thoughts at first cuz i felt like i was a huge failure but words of my family and friends made me reconsider that thought. Sure it will always taunt me in a way but its not worth takin my life for. That taunt can actually work in a good way wich means being more carefull with dating. Tbh believe me even admitting this all is hard for me but tbh i dont wanna lie about it cuz thats worse. Tbh in the end both of us are too blame and i accept that. We both were really stupid and thats saying it nicely. Tbh i am thankfull for her and her family that they gave me a second chance basically cuz otherwise i could actually be in jail. Honestly thats why i am not mad at her or have hsrd feelings she told the full truth about the situation. And dw we blocked each other forever. A while ago she contacted me dispite that and wanted to be friends but i said its better to just leave this all behind us. Like i couldve said yes but this time i wanted to make a good decision and i think cutting of contact with this girl is just that. I ofcourse told her why its better and she understood luckily. Now im done rambling truly sorry xd but might aswell tell the whole truth as i posted earlier about it in this thread and on era. Personally i am really thankfull of the peeps that supported me i might have not be here without em. Believe me i am not proud this all happened and itll stick with me forever. Tbh i am crying a little now cuz tbh my dad kinda saved my life on this one while he was deadly ill he was the most relaxed about it all. And was like son dont fret it shit happens just make sure to be more cautiones nex time you are no pedo this could happen to anyone son dont let it consume you. Well thats all its my own burden to life with but yeah i can give it a place now and be a better and more carefull person. But yep squiddo ask for that damn id before you date online or long distance. And tbh even irl when in doubt while going out better be safe than sorry. Sorry for the big post but i felt like atleast fully typing this out especially since i talked about it earlier on era without much context wich actually can work out badly. But yeah not proud that i dated a minor. I truly shouldve asked for proof age. It was stupid as fuck of me. But its a very hard life lesson for me. Ill make sure it never happens again even not by being fooled or lied to. Like if someone doesnt want to show their id or passport or amy proof of age that should be a red flag and then immediatly be avoided. Now im done rambling but yeah thats the full story tbh. I really needed to get that out even if it makes me look bad. And i thank my dad for being there for me same for friends and some random peeps. Without them i might have actually ended my life but their support and words of wisdom made me reconsider any suicide attempts i had. Hopefully my post will make people a lil more carefull aswell its better to avoid this kind of situation at all. Its not worth it. Thank you for readin. Cheers.
Vote Button
Score
0.52
Total
0
Published

(22042151)

EtcetEraThread Spider-Man: Far From Home Social Media Reactions
Reason User Banned (3 Days): Trolling, antagonizing users over a series of posts, history of similar infractions
the death of movie quality is fun
Vote Button
Score
0.42
Total
0
Published

(22049785)

EtcetEraThread Smallville’s Allison Mack pleads guilty sex cult case
Reason User Banned (5 Days): Inappropriate Commentary; Boys Club Rhetoric in a Sensitive Thread
Same. That’s a lot of knuckle children wasted.
Vote Button
Score
0.42
Total
0
Published

(22052731)

EtcetEraThread Avengers: Endgame Being Re-Released Next Weekend With New Footage
Red Text If you take issue with any ban, you are more than free to contact the mod captains--myself, Mist, Finale Fireworker, and Hecht--in PMs and we will be more than happy to answer any questions or address any concerns. In addition we clarified to modpost to indicate that this behavior was over multiple posts in multiple threads. It is, however, not ok to derail a thread because you don't like a ban.
Vote Button
Score
0.42
Total
0
Published

(22047693)

EtcetEraThread Avengers: Endgame Being Re-Released Next Weekend With New Footage
Reason User Banned (Duration Pending): Hostility, thread derail, and gatekeeping over multiple posts and threads; history of similar infractions
It’s definitely unlikely to happen, but I... don’t understand, really. Aren’t you a MCU fan? Or this is just another "gotcha" from me simply speculating at a China re-release? We don’t know what is the extent of this, and while we don’t know that, the fact that we already have confirmation of at least a new location should be exciting to you, if you follow box office. Or you just don’t want Endgame to pass it (there wouldn’t be nothing wrong about that, btw)? Legit curious if this is about Endgame or me posting things, because I really can’t tell if this is banter or something else.
Vote Button
Score
0.28
Total
8
Published

(21882589)

EtcetEraThread Phoenix Police Officer Threatens to "Fucking Shoot" mother whose daughter walked out with a 99cent Barbie
Reason User Banned (1 Week): Excusing violence.
This is why I have little more than apathy when I hear about pigs getting ventilated. Where are the good cops, pigs? Where are the "good ones" on the steps of the courthouse explaining why these low-rent fascist thugs they call their "brothers" are both making this country less safe for normal people and the cops? They're all fucking cowards, that's why they hide, whimper and then shit themselves with fear of their own shadows. Fuck the police
Vote Button
Score
0.26
Total
0
Published

(22023436)

EtcetEraThread Joe Rogan and Duncan Trussell on JRE
Red Text Threads on Joe Rogan's podcast invariably go poorly and produce low quality discussion, and we do not believe this one will be any different.
Vote Button
Score
0.25
Total
1
Published

(21990653)

EtcetEraThread the “dad bod” is the new six-pack, new survey reveals
Reason User Banned (1 Week): Trolling and antagonizing other users over a series of posts; accumulated infractions.
I just feel like that if I had a gut that folded over on itself when I sat down, or pushed out my t-shirts, I'd rather be dead. If we pretend that the survey in the OP is reflective of reality, the idea that somebody would put themselves through that in a shallow attempt to attract women is disgusting to me.
Vote Button
Score
0.24
Total
0
Published

(22021234)

EtcetEraThread Netflix Is Defending Its New Prank Show With The "Stranger Things" Actor That's Drawing Backlash
Reason User Warned: antagonizing other users (unnecessary callout)
lmao classic redmercury
Vote Button
Score
0.24
Total
0
Published

(22021225)

EtcetEraThread Feminist Discussion of Anime and Manga |OT| Not your waifu
Reason User Banned (2 Weeks): Defending misogyny
Have you read Shield Hero or watched it? It could have been anyone in her position (well like some in the Novel are and they get what they deserve), but have you read what she has done? Getting renamed to Bitch is better than getting killed. After all that humilation she gave everyone and even her own family (who she wanted to kill too) she came away quiet good, because she has the slave crest only that she cannot lie anymore which is great for that shit character. It's also great when you know what else happens to that character and why everything happens, but that would be a big spoiler (not the webnovel that had other plans). The only thing that irks me is that they talked about Raph and Filo having their crests removed, but they don't do that or rather they redid the seal (they already lost them once) because they get "extra exp". Otherwise their slave crests or status is never a thing again in the series.
Vote Button
Score
0.23
Total
0
Published

(22036579)

EtcetEraThread Wkd Box Office - 6•14-16•19 - Men in Black: International grounded, Shaft opens soft as sequels continue to disappoint
Red Text We are all eager to see who comes out on top between Avatar and Endgame. However, let's not let that rivalry spur hostility or personal attacks between members. Metacommentary about other users or the state of the thread contributes to this hostile environment, so let's cut out the antagonistic attitude and stay on topic.
Vote Button
Score
0.19
Total
1
Published

(21995180)

EtcetEraThread Harvard rescinds admission to Parkland survivor Kyle Kashuv over past racist comments
Reason User Banned (Permanent): Repeated hostility and trolling over a series of posts; account still in junior phase
I am an androphilic homosexual. I jerk off to men and enter into sexual relationships with them. When I am at home and I get upset with myself I punch myself in the head and yell "Faggot fucker" over and over until I calm down. I live in fear of little psychopaths like you deciding you have a bone to pick with me, making huge assumptions about my character and life history, recording one of my episodes and using that footage to get me fired and/or ruin my interpersonal relationships.
Vote Button
Score
0.19
Total
1
Published

(21996283)

EtcetEraThread the “dad bod” is the new six-pack, new survey reveals
Reason User Banned (2 Weeks): Trolling and history of inflammatory behavior, numerous accumulated infractions
The only people who believe this nonsense are lazy as fuck and most likely are dating below average looking people
Vote Button
Score
0.14
Total
1
Published

(21978657)

EtcetEraThread InfoWars legal team turns over emails, some containing child abuse images sent to Jones, to Sandy Hook families lawyers as part of lawsuit
Reason User Warned: Inappropriate commentary.
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha he's finally going to jail and we all know how child predators are treated hhahahahahahahahahaha what a fucking idiot
Vote Button
Score
0.13
Total
0
Published

(22003276)

EtcetEraThread Wholesome Moments : Brie Larson Brought Her CAPTAIN MARVEL Stunt Doubles Onstage to Accept MTV Award
Reason User banned (1 day): Trolling, thread derailment.
On the one hand, it's a nice gesture but on the hand it's a white woman giving more spotlight to her fellow white women. Though really that's the problem that I have with the women empowerment movement is that it's currently solely focused on white women and it feels like that women of colours are being excluded because white women are the safer choice. 1. She wasn't being serious with her statement, 2. she has stunt people for insurance purpose, 3. it doesn't take away what she's doing.
Vote Button
Score
0.13
Total
0
Vote Button
Score
0.13
Total
0
Published

(22012523)

EtcetEraThread the “dad bod” is the new six-pack, new survey reveals
Red Text The discussion in this thread seems to have run its course. As such it has been locked.
Vote Button
Score
0.13
Total
0
Vote Button
Score
0.13
Total
0
Published

(21994940)

EtcetEraThread the “dad bod” is the new six-pack, new survey reveals
Reason User Banned (1 Day): Justifying body-shaming.
This is what happens when we aren’t allowed to critique people’s health and fitness because “fat shaming is wrong”. Don’t get me wrong, You should never ridicule someone for the shape of their body. We just better not start applauding general apathy towards health and trying to make beer guts (which is what dad bod is for a large part) a hot new trend. That’s pretty unsavory. Being unhealthy is not something to promote and pass on to our children.
Vote Button
Score
0.13
Total
3
Vote Button
Score
0.10
Total
0
Published

(21986608)

EtcetEraThread Harvard rescinds admission to Parkland survivor Kyle Kashuv over past racist comments
Reason User Banned (Duration Pending): Disingenuous commentary surrounding bigotry, history of trolling, numerous accumulated infractions
No, just like you I was perfect.
Vote Button
Score
0.10
Total
0
Published

(22002304)

EtcetEraThread Coping with new stepdad in kids life
Reason User banned (1 week): sexism, spreading misinformation; prior ban related to sexism
Most state courts don't care a whiff about infidelity. Assets get cleaved in half even if one party literally brought nothing to the marriage and the woman gets primary custody unless she shows up to court with a needle in her arm.
Vote Button
Score
0.10
Total
0
Published

(21998774)

EtcetEraThread The NYC Dept of Finance robbed me and there is nothing I can do about it.
Reason User Warned: Trolling
It's only 730 dollars. Some people can't even afford a roof over their head.
Vote Button
Score
0.09
Total
2
Published

(21888944)

EtcetEraThread Ars: One dead after fecal microbiota transplant gone wrong, FDA warns [See Staff post]
Reason User Warned: Inappropriate Joke
. The preferred medical term is doodoo doctor. Thanks.
Vote Button
Score
0.08
Total
2
Published

(21867098)

EtcetEraThread I'm not the only one who does this when I see a banned member on ERA, am I?
Reason User banned (duration pending): posting content from an account affiliated with a harassment site + previous bans for racism
Vote Button
Score
0.07
Total
0
Published

(21969365)

EtcetEraThread Lucasfilm names Bad Robot's Michelle Rejwan as Senior VP, in charge of all Live-Action Star Wars content
Reason User banned (3 days): drive-by trolling, derailing
Yay, another white lady... Just like all the higher ups in the recent Star Wars films... It'll make white feminists happy at least.
Vote Button
Score
0.07
Total
0
Published

(21968751)

EtcetEraThread Former Anti-LGBT Congressman Aaron Shock seen at Coachella partying/making out with other gays
Reason User Banned (Permanent): Homophobic rhetoric, account in junior phase
And he's a big ol bottom. No surprise there.
Vote Button
Score
0.07
Total
0
Published

(21972919)

EtcetEraThread (Daily Beast) Alex Jones Offers $1M Reward After Alleged ‘Malware’ Attack That He Says Planted Child Porn on His Servers
Reason User banned (2 weeks): trolling and baiting with incendiary accusations, and abusing the report system, immediately after coming back from a ban
want to defend alex jones now?
Vote Button
Score
0.07
Total
0
Published

(21977650)

EtcetEraThread Maryland substitute teacher arrested after providing high school student with alcohol, engaged in sexual activity on school grounds
Reason User Banned (Duration Pending): Making Light of Sexual Misconduct Involving a Minor
Am I reading that right that substitute teacher do not even need to graduate but can work as a substitute like a student job? looks like south park is getting a lot more meme-able lately... especially today.
Vote Button
Score
0.07
Total
0
Published

(21977414)

EtcetEraThread Maryland substitute teacher arrested after providing high school student with alcohol, engaged in sexual activity on school grounds
Reason User Banned (Duration Pending): Excusing Sexual Misconduct Involving a Minor
Lucky kid /ducks
Vote Button
Score
0.07
Total
0
Published

(21977141)

EtcetEraThread Harvard rescinds admission to Parkland survivor Kyle Kashuv over past racist comments
Reason User Banned (1 Week): Excusing Racism
I literally posted after reading the first part or two as I was heading back to work from break. Op doesn't have much in the way of context.There's plenty of people who use that word that don't hate black people. Not saying it's right but it's still true.Ok, while I agree after some context that this guy shouldn't be going to Harvard it's still disturbing to me that a single shitty post is the grounds they came up with to end his education at the school that already accepted him in the first place. All the other stuff was apparently already known and they were still going to let him in. People say and do stupid shit, many people grow out of it and change. There's no minimum amount of time that requires that kind of change either. This definitely isn't one of those situations though.Is this really necessary? It's really telling that I've been on this site and in this community for about 7 years now and this is what gets the most replies out of anything I've ever posted, ever.
Vote Button
Score
0.06
Total
1
Published

(21888235)

EtcetEraThread Ars: One dead after fecal microbiota transplant gone wrong, FDA warns [See Staff post]
Reason User warned: inappropriate joke
This sounds like a procedure invented by 7 year old boys during recess. “What if you had a disease and the only way to help was to put someone else’s poo up you’re butt would you do it lmao”
Vote Button
Score
0.05
Total
0
Published

(21956473)

EtcetEraThread Am I being ridiculous? (about our daughter's name)
Reason User banned (3 days): Inappropriate joke
I'll keep that in mind for when I name my next son Gaylord Tickler Johnson.Common in one region, surely. Not in most English-speaking countries and not on the internet.
Vote Button
Score
0.05
Total
0
Published

(21937837)

EtcetEraThread It's happening, Anthony Davis traded to the LA Lakers
Reason User Banned (3 Days): Reinforcing Harmful Stereotypes
Lol no not at all. Kawhi almost certainly has autism or Aspergers. Marvin Harrison is a quiet, stone cold psychopath.
Vote Button
Score
0.05
Total
0
Vote Button
Score
0.05
Total
0
Published

(21936369)

EtcetEraThread Been an iPhone user for 11 years, thinking of switching
Reason User Banned (1 Day): Platform War; history of infractions for similar behavior.
you’ll be back after the first laggy sub 20 fps scroll on an android OS, don’t worry it’s nice to try new things, makes you appreciate what you have and take for granted on iOS. the One plus 6T made me consider it at one point as well, but then reality kicked in. iOS is unmatched
Vote Button
Score
0.05
Total
0
Published

(21945182)

EtcetEraThread Police body cams ain't working: what's next?
Reason User Banned (5 Days): Hostility; Previous Ban for Similar Behavior
I know I'm going to banned again, but: You're a fucking moron.
Vote Button
Score
0.05
Total
0
Published

(21932491)

EtcetEraThread Phoenix Police Officer Threatens to "Fucking Shoot" mother whose daughter walked out with a 99cent Barbie
Reason User banned (3 days): personal attacks
I remember this video... a few of y’all had some TAKES during that thread., id get banned for saying what id LIKE to say to you so I’ll just say this: The lot of them should be charged with attempted murder. I can tell what type of prison guard you are. “Look the other way” is your motto, like two of the cops in that video. Can’t imagine the shit you let go down in the prison. Given the small “punishment” you “advocated” for, you probably were involved. I know about you, Doggy. #feelingcutechallenge
Vote Button
Score
0.04
Total
9
Published

(20727364)

EtcetEraThread I told my coworker to STFU and she started to cry
Reason User Banned (Duration Pending): Sexism; History of Severe Infractions
I mean, it wasn't professional of me. But she tells me to STFU many times. But I never cry. I'm still shocked by the way. Not feeling bad at all, just interested why she would cry and act all hysterical. She's 26 years old. My male boss says I have to be careful because I only work with females. And females are more sensitive to such things...
Vote Button
Score
0.04
Total
0
Published

(21916438)

EtcetEraThread So what's up with that neogaf attack?
Red Text While we do not usually entertain coordinated trolling campaigns, this one is egregious enough that we are happy to clarify things for the benefit of our members: This is an attempt at retaliation for a ban. The member who posted this material was permanently banned from ResetEra for repeatedly trolling topics related to bigotry:
Vote Button
Score
0.04
Total
2
Vote Button
Score
0.04
Total
0
Published

(21918211)

EtcetEraThread Vic Mignogna accused of homophobia, antisemitism, sexual harrassment by fans, professionals; Rooster Teeth and FUNimation cut ties [Lawsuit Filed]
Reason User Banned (Permanent): Persistent Malicious Trolling
All you lot, think long and hard before posting here. This thread is being heavily watched. You ultimately represent the entity, you would do well to remember that.
Vote Button
Score
0.04
Total
0
Vote Button
Score
0.04
Total
5
Vote Button
Score
0.04
Total
0
Published

(21903517)

EtcetEraThread The f*ck is this?
Red Text While we do not usually entertain coordinated trolling campaigns, this one is egregious enough that we are happy to clarify things for the benefit of our members: This is an attempt at retaliation for a ban. The member who posted this material was permanently banned from ResetEra for repeatedly trolling topics related to bigotry: