When you know you've said something truly horrible, so horrible that if anyone discovered it you'd be ruined, you get super paranoid that people will find out about it.
So when a poster references that event, even if they name no names and mention zero specifics and there's no way it could possibly be related to you, you panic because you know know, and at some point in the future they attach a name to the horrible things you said.
so they ban you
EtcetEraThreadthe “dad bod” is the new six-pack, new survey reveals
ReasonUser Banned (1 Week): Trolling and antagonizing other users over a series of posts; accumulated infractions.
I just feel like that if I had a gut that folded over on itself when I sat down, or pushed out my t-shirts, I'd rather be dead. If we pretend that the survey in the OP is reflective of reality, the idea that somebody would put themselves through that in a shallow attempt to attract women is disgusting to me.
EtcetEraThread[The Atlantic] My wife was dying, and we didn't tell our children
ReasonUser Warned: Insensitive and antagonistic behavior
The kids in article got fucked over too. It'll Shadow them for the rest of their lives.
It's just wild to me that you're ruining your kids life because you're afraid they will have a negative reaction while simultaneously think they'll have a positive enough response after the fact to not hate you for it.