His account was that it all appeared consensual and this is sort of corroborated by her account despite how she was feeling. She had consensually engaged in oral sex at the beginning of the date, she wasn’t threatened physically or professionally or held against her will. Plus the article isn’t great - complaining about wine choice, kink-shaming “the claw”, ridiculing him by calling him a horny 18 year old. Like, even the title of the article - my date with Ansari was “the worst night of my life” - really? She is an adult who was free to leave at any point, there was no power imbalance in their relationship. His persistent behaviour was inappropriate and deserved flagging, which he has accepted. What more should he do?