It's not about pride, I'm just stuck on the logical part of this argument. "Gamer" literally means "a person who plays video games or participates in role-playing games." I'm not letting that be redefined as "Gamergate people" because of peoples prejudice. Gamergate is a particularly American phenomenon and a particularly niche internet phenomenon. The meaning of the name "Gamer" doesn't change Worldwide because of what is going on, on the American internet. I'm from the UK. I can tell you a fact that Gamer here is the dictionary definition.